Early signs of pregnancy after giving birth? Being pregnant when you have a baby.

Early signs of pregnancy after giving birth? Being pregnant when you have a baby.

I gave birth to my first born back in late 2014 and by December 2014 I started experiencing  pregnancy symptoms. I couldn’t be. There was no way I was really experiencing early signs of pregnancy after giving birth. Not so soon surely? I didn’t think it was even possible to fall pregnant just weeks or maybe months, 2 at most, after having a baby. As it happens I knew very little about mother nature and it is indeed possible.

Those early signs of pregnancy after giving birth, yep,  that’s because I was indeed pregnant.

So it turns out you can getting pregnant not long after giving birth is possible. It is in fact possible to get pregnant before your first postpartum menstrual cycle. You can fall pregnant just a matter of weeks postpartum. Despite nursing my first period (and last period) made it’s return pretty sharpish post delivery. I was only spared some six weeks without it I do believe. So something else to be mindful of, breastfeeding is not birth control. Yes breastfeeding can suppress ovulation but it doesn’t stop your fertility. There is a reason the midwives ask you about birth control repeatedly in your follow up examinations – YOU NEED IT.

I found out I was circa 7 weeks pregnant with my second child when my first was just 4 months old. Still very much a baby herself. Still not sleeping, at all and still breastfed. There is now an 11 month age gap between my two children. My second born was two months premature and had he gone to term there would have been 13 months between them, still not a large age gap I grant you.

Being pregnant is great in so many ways. I enjoyed my first pregnancy, despite the sick and the tired. I was essentially able to eat what I wanted, when I wanted and sleep when I wanted. Something I haven’t been able to do ever since. I have not slept as much in my life as I did during those 8 months I was pregnant with my first. 8 months yes, my first born arrived a month ahead of schedule. I would come home from work and quite literally go to bed. There I would stay until I went to work the next morning. It was bliss.


Being pregnant when you already have a little one be it a baby, a toddler or pre-schooler that is a whole new ball game and that is tough.

I knew deep down that I pregnant about a month before I took a pregnancy test to confirm it. I think part of me was in denial.

I recognised the early signs of pregnancy after giving birth.

I was falling asleep on the sofa unable to keep my eyes open in the middle of the day. It wasn’t just newborn fatigue. It was that uncontrollable exhaustion that floors you. The type I have only ever felt during pregnancy. The type that basically forces you to shut your eyes, rendering it impossible to keep them open.

I felt nauseous. I was never actually sick with either of my pregnancies but I had waves of sickness that would last most of the day. I felt as though I could be sick at any moment yet knowing I wasn’t actually going to be sick. Having lived through this feeling some 12 months earlier it was recognisable, to say the least.

The thought of drinking my beloved coffee made me nauseous.

I had a glass of wine or two on Christmas day and I felt so sick afterward and couldn’t drink anymore. I knew something was up.

I had missed periods. I had had one postpartum period or bleed rather and nothing more.

It effected my breast milk supply and milk production or and I had sore nipples.

I remember all these pregnancy symptoms stacking up against me yet being in denial. Refusing to believe that it was possible to have another pregnancy after giving birth so recently. I didn’t want to take the test. Truth be told I didn’t want the confirmation. Living in denial was preferable.

I did eventually take the test. It was around New Years, maybe early January. I can remember it clear as anything. I remember being sat on the toilet with my hand shaking and my heart in my mouth. Even thinking about it now brings back that feeling, feeling almost short of breath.

I watched the lines fill vertically and confirm what I already knew. I was pregnant with my second child and I had a  four month old baby, probably not sleeping, in her cot in the next room.

I couldn’t avoid it any longer and took myself up to tell Mr Tammymum, who to my surprise took it remarkably well. Probably better than I did, actually.

I insisted on booking an early pregnancy scan for further confirmation that I was indeed pregnant and to find out just how pregnant I was. We later found out that baby number two was due on the 25th August 2015. His sister’s due date was the 27th August 2014. It was really happening.

early signs of pregnancy after giving birth - second pregnancy confirmation
Proof I was indeed pregnant!

It got physically harder.

The early signs of pregnancy were in someways easier to cope with. Physically being pregnant whilst having a baby became harder. Whilst I never had big baby bumps or never gained large amounts of weight, carrying a human in your body whilst carrying an actual human on it was tough.

I had to battle through a teething baby, whilst five and six months pregnant. A teething baby who, like all, moaned at the pain. Refused to be put down. Liked to be rocked. Constantly carrying a baby around was tiring not to mention physically hard around my swelling stomach.

Bending was getting harder. Lifting was forbidden.

It was the warm summer months, which are uncomfortable at best when pregnant. Trying to entertain, keep cool and placate an 8 month old is especially hard when the temperatures are rising.

Sleep was a big issue. I had no where near enough it. My first born still didn’t sleep any longer than 3 hour stretches and like any pregnant person or just person this was taking it’s toll. It did make the whole thing seem that bit harder.

The things I enjoyed about pregnancy the first time were not as prevalent the second time around.

I did experience pregnancy pains in my stomach with my second born that I never experienced the first time around. I don’t know if it was result of overdoing it or just coincidence.

early signs of pregnancy after giving birth - me with a baby and being pregnant
A rare photo of me. This was taken in June 2016. about 6 months pregnant and 3 weeks before my son was born. ur daughter was 10 months old.

Dealing with pregnancy after giving birth mentally.

In some ways this was harder than the physical aspect of pregnancy when you have not long given birth. Mentally I wasn’t prepared for another baby. I was still learning how to be a mother to my first.

I hid my pregnancy from people for a long time. I could get away with being ‘a bit fat’ or a having plausible post partum body if I wore the right thing until I was about 6 months pregnant.

I didn’t like the judgement that came with telling people you were pregnant – when you were holding your baby and boy was there judgement. ‘You’ll have your hands full’, ‘Are you insane?’, ‘I bet that wasn’t planned’, ‘You’ve got be mad’. Didn’t exactly fill me with the warm fuzzies. People would tell me their horror stories of their close age gaps and how ‘they didn’t enjoy motherhood’ because of it. Why anybody will ever think this is an appropriate thing to say to someone about to go through something similar is beyond me.

There were times when I would sit up at night trying desperately to get my baby to sleep, feeling so utterly worn down by life with a baby, pregnancy, peoples’ opinions and general life stresses that I felt like I was on a rollercoaster going 400mph hour that I just couldn’t get off. No matter how much I might want to.

‘This isn’t a situation you can do anything about now, you’re in it and no matter how huge or life changing this situation is you’re stuck with it like it or not’.

It’s what would go through my mind at 2 o’clock in the morning. As shameful as it might seem to admit.

Mentally I would beat myself up. It was a weird juxtaposition of horrendous guilt over not being sure this was what I wanted against unfettered joy at the thought of a tiny baby boy growing in my stomach. One I knew I loved unconditionally and would go to the ends of the earth for. One that I knew I couldn’t live without no matter how hard things might be.

Do I have any advice for those with the early signs of pregnancy after giving birth? For being pregnant when you already have a baby, a newborn at that?

As a general rule I don’t like to give out parenting advice, who am I to do so? That said if I could go back and tell myself a few things I would.

  • TAKE IT EASIER. This is a massive one. I wasn’t kind to myself when I was pregnant the second time. I expected too much from my body. I would still walk miles and miles with the pushchair in hot weather. I would still insist on doing everything. I did all the nights and all the mornings with our baby. I didn’t nap when the baby napped. I didn’t let people help when I should. I certainly never asked for help when I really should have.Let people help you.I didn’t stop and listen to my body when I experienced pains. I made myself carry on as ‘I was only pregnant, I wasn’t injured or incapable’. I wouldn’t admit defeat.We moved house a week before my son was born. The move was incredibly stressful in the weeks leading up to moving day. Moving day was long, hard and hot. I lifted way more than I should. I unpacked too much. I, none of us, stopped all day. We sorted, lifted, moved well into the night and the days after.Should it really surprise me my son was born a week later, some two month early? I have spent years blaming myself for prematurity and subsequent struggles. Take it from me, be kind to yourself.
  • Enjoy being a mum to one. I sometimes find it hard to imagine what it is like being a parent to just one child. I was one for such a short space of time. During which time we were planning for the second. Trying to buy a bigger house, moving to said bigger house, new pushchairs, new cots, new clothes, baby names. Everyday was spent thinking about, being governed by or preparing for the arrival of our second born. I was always tired, hormonal and pregnant. With hindsight I wish I had taken the time to appreciate this time with my daughter. My first born, just the two of us. To really enjoy our time together, not just to get through it.
  • Don’t be ashamed of being pregnant when you have just had a baby. It’s easier said than done and the comments don’t help but being pregnant and having children really is an amazing part of life. No one should shame you for it or make you feel anything but privileged.
  • You can do it but it’s ok to worry that you can’t. You’re not a bad person for thinking that the timing is less than ideal, for doubting yourself or wondering if it is really what want. You’re human. A pregnant hormonal one at that. You can do it. You’re a strong woman. You can have a newborn and a 1 year old. You can survive on no sleep, you can put everything else before yourself, you can not shower for days and cry about the fact you’ve not left the house and had minstrels for dinner. You are stronger than you know and trust me, you can do it.
  • Finally, if you are experiencing signs of pregnancy after giving birth – do the test! I started having pregnancy signs and I ignored them for a while but it doesn’t change anything. The earlier you know the sooner you can start looking after yourself and your baby.


I found out I was pregnant when I had a newborn. I had two babies in 11 months. It was hard for many reasons yet great for many reasons here is what it was like being pregnant and having a newborn  and then having 2 under 1. Being pregnant and having a baby. The difference of a second pregnancy #pregnancy #newborn #newbornandpregnant #twounderone

My second pregnancy was very quickly after my first pregnancy. I had two babies in 11 months. Being pregnant and having a baby was an experience I wasn't expecting. This is what it is like to be pregnant and look after your baby. Two under one. Those early signs of pregnancy after giving birth were there for a reason. I was pregnant and had a new baby. #pregnancy #secondpregnancy #twounderone #11monthagegap


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